Promise to America’s Parents
Why do we need the Promise to America’s Parents?
Local, state, and federal government policies are imposing ideologies that divide children by race and promote the falsehood that a boy can become a girl or vice versa. Some schools are treating children as if they are the opposite sex without the permission of parents. Medical professionals are performing harmful experiments on children who are emotionally distressed about their bodies. To protect children, parents need laws that protect their rights.
Promise to Americaʼs Parents

Children belong first and foremost to their families. In the words of the U.S. Supreme Court, they are not “mere creatures of the state.” The unique and intimate relationship between a parent and a child creates a duty and a corresponding natural right. Parental rights are fundamental rights protected by the U.S. Constitution. However, courts have not consistently protected parental rights against government interference and invasion as they should. Parents need laws that provide government Accountability, Choice, and Transparency (ACT):
Accountability
Every mother or father may hold the government accountable for infringing on their rights to care for their child.
- Every mother or father should be able to direct the upbringing, education, and care of their children. Any infringement on these fundamental rights by a federal, state, or local government policy must meet the strictest legal standard.
Choice
Every mother or father has the responsibility and right to choose the education and medical treatment that they deem best for their child.
- Every mother or father should have the freedom to choose a school (including private school, religious schools, and homeschooling) that aligns with their values.
- Every mother or father should be able to determine the instruction that their child receives. Public schools should obtain written consent for instruction on topics related to Critical Theory and Identity, including but not limited to, topics such as race, sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity. Parents should be able to opt their child out of any instruction that violates their beliefs and should be able to hold the government accountable if their rights are violated.
- Every mother or father should be able to determine the medical treatment that their child receives. No parent should face political or ideological barriers in obtaining healthcare for their child.*
- Any medical professional, school official, and/or government employee should obtain written parental consent to treat a child’s mental or physical health.
Transparency
Every mother or father has the right to know about what their child is learning, their child’s health, and any harms to them.
- Every mother or father should have the right to review all curriculum and teacher training materials, receive material updates, meet with teachers to discuss instruction of their child, and make alternative arrangements to objectionable instruction.
- Every mother or father should have the right to be informed by school officials about their child’s physical, emotional, and mental health.
- Every mother or father should be able to safeguard their child’s personal information. Public schools should obtain written parental consent before collecting information including, but not limited to, DNA, blood, biometric data, and voice or image recordings.
- Every mother or father should have the right to full access to all written and electronic records about their child (including, but not limited to, medical records, disciplinary, counseling, and psychological records, and reports of behavioral patterns) unless the parent is the subject of a criminal investigation.
- Every mother or father should have the right to be notified by school employees, medical professionals, and/or government officials if there is a reasonable suspicion that abuse, neglect, or any criminal offense has been committed against their minor child, unless notification would impede an official investigation.
[*If a child has no affirmative right of access to a particular medical or mental health procedure or service because such procedure or service is prohibited under state law, then that child’s parents do not have an affirmative right to obtain that procedure or service on the child’s behalf.]

Celebration of Promise to Americaʼs Parents
The Celebration of the Promise to Americaʼs Parents honors parents, community organizations, and lawmakers who are keeping their promises to protect the fundamental rights of parents to care for and raise their children.

How One State is Setting the Pace on Protecting Parental Rights
Whose children are they? That’s the question at the heart of what has played out at public school board meetings nationwide in recent years. School boards and government officials claim children belong to “all of us” and not their families. They believe bureaucrats – not parents – should be the ultimate decision-makers regarding what’s best for children.
Parent Stories
Melissa Riley
Melissa Riley’s middle school son was just like any other normal, well-adjusted, happy child. He got along well with friends and classmates and was taught to treat others equally, regardless of immutable characteristics like race. He was fine, that is, until the Albemarle School Board injected Critical Race Theory (CRT) into practice in the classroom. The instruction indoctrinates children into a distorted worldview and caused him to see everything through a lens of race.
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Carlos Ibañez
Carlos Ibañez and his wife grew up under a brutal dictatorship in Panama, and when they came to America more than 20 years ago, they felt blessed to live in a country that provided equal opportunity to all citizens, regardless of race or economic status. However, their daughter was shown a video in her Albemarle County (Virginia) middle school class that depicted America as a place where only white people could succeed, and people like their Latina daughter could not.
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